Genogram Paper Instructions
Part One: You will submit a personal, three or
four-generation family genogram. You will construct their genogram by gathering
family history, interviewing family members, and through personal reflection.
You will draw their genogram accurately and clearly, depicting key relational
and historical information about their family.
Part Two: You will submit a 6-8 page paper to accompany the genogram. (Please follow APA style.) The first section of the paper (4-5 typed pages) will cover family structure, life cycle fit, pattern repetition across the generations (patterns of functioning for both sides of the family, patterns of relationships such as close, conflicted or enmeshed and patterns of structure), life events and family functioning, relationship/attachment patterns and triangles, family balance and imbalance, and therapeutic concerns. The balance of the paper (2-3 pages) will be written as a reflection on your family and your personal response to creating the genogram.
An individual’s heritage is
important and is expressed in the family as it will be personally divulged
herein. Therefore, exploring the genealogy of my kin in this writ will be
instrumental in understanding my origin, which is pertinent for humanity’s
formation of meaning and ideation of destiny. These are relevant components for
the healthy development of the psychological states of the individual. This
writ, a dichotomy of sections, will cover the exploratory section and the
reflection and analysis on the family. The first part, composed of pattern
repetition, the structure of the family, and the life cycle fit, will be
explored the paternal and maternal sides of the individual’s family.
Furthermore, lie events and the effective functioning of families will be
understood as well as the various modes of how individuals get attached. The
balanced state of the family and the areas where therapy would have been
potentially necessary will be explored and understood comprehensively in this
paper. The reflection has revealed the understanding of the psychological and
intellectual composition of the person due to the state of affairs within the
family. Therefore, the understanding of the family structure and the family state
of affairs through the genogram is important for understanding the intellectual
and psychological composition through the pattern understanding of the family.
The family I belong to is
somewhat unconventional, and its uniqueness will be understood in its
structure. Until recently, I had known Karen and Walter as my biological
parents. Walter is eighty-three years old and is a decade older than Karen.
They have raised and brought me to independence and competence in society (Hold,
2017). However, the discovery that Karen was not my biological mother was new
information a year ago. The genetic mother donated her egg to Karen, the mother
who underwent the gestation period and gave birth to me. The egg donor was born
on the sixteenth of September in 1966. The age of biological mother was
twenty-six at the time of egg donation. The biological mother was a graduate
student at the city university of New York who majored in psychology and
applied psychology. She entertained and nurtured the habit of long-distance
running and participated in the Boston and New York Marathon at the college
level. The lady was penta-lingual and the languages were inclusive of English,
Italian, Russian, Hebrew and German with the latter being her ethnicity. Furthermore, the birth parents of the egg
doner were conventional with the mother being a homemaker and the father a
computer analyst. The egg donor was raised together with three brothers
currently aged 58,54 and 47. The birth donors’ parents each had three siblings
while the grandmother died at the age of seventy-three in a motor accident.
Therefore, this paragraph comprehensively explores the egg donor’s family
structure profile and genealogy three generations back.
Karen is the gestative mother who bore me for nine months her heritage and family is also instrumental in my personal nature . Karen is a blend of four nationalities inclusive of English, Welsh, Irish and Italian. These quadriplegic set of qualities are thought to descend from her father’s side. The paternal side of Karen was a set of four children. Karen was born in the ninth of April in 1948 and has a sibling who is one and a half year older than her. The family is presumed to come to the United states during the Italian immigration of 1852. Therefore, Karen has a diverse and culturally rich origin that entails a migration from Europe into the United States in the nineteenth century.
The paternal side or the
genealogy has a pertinent contribution to the psychological development and the
consideration of the family structure is instrumental for understanding it’s
significance. Walter’s maternal side was a set of six children all of Russian
decent in St Petersburg. Walter’s grandmother was called Ida Lilewitz while the
grandfather was Barney Vitsky (Hold, 2017). The family was conventional given
the times and only the father was the breadwinner with the mother acting as the
homemaker (Naruemol, 2017). The first three children were born in Russia while
the last were born after the immigration of the family into Richmond Virginia.
The first three siblings of Walter’s mom were female with the first succumbing
to ovarian cancer. The fourth sibling who was a physician with the fifth being
a bookkeeper toll when he died at the age of seventy eight. Moreover, Walter
has two siblings.
The genealogy of Walter is,
therefore, indicatively prone to the cancer gene as Ida, the fourth sibling of Walter's maternal side, was exposed to the
disease. Ida, therefore, had to undergo a lobotomy due to their psychotic
behavior as the individuals were ignorant concerning what t do then. The
resultant state was continuous friction in the family due to the indecision
concerning what to do with her state of affairs (Keskin, 2017). Therefore, this
exposition reveals the turbulence inherent in the paternal side of the family
and the consequent probable consequences.
The consideration of both
[paternal and maternal structure reveals the ideal combination of the heritage
of where I come from. Therefore, it is indicative that my heritage is a blend
of eastern Europe and Russian as well as a combination of European Jewish and
German. The communities of Jews where I originate from is from the North Western part of Europe,
which is on the paternal side. In contrast, Herman Emroch, the great
grandfather and considerable patriarch, originated from the German Austrian
border (Naruemol, 2017). The Jewish migration resulted in leaving only one
typical Jewish family in the original area—Toby, who was the matriarch and wife
of Herman. Originally Herman was named Hyman Emroch, and the individual opted
for a name change after their death which his descendants executed. The great
grandparents had three children, with the grandfather being the eldest of the
three. They were all born in Richmond, Virginia. Emmanuel, also the
grandfather, worked as an attorney, whereas Hannah Silverman worked as a Female
Controller of Thalhimer. Finally, Moly, the last born, was never married, nor
did he partake in any form of employment. This state of affairs resulted from a
mental illness that was not diagnosed early enough and had severe consequences on
the girl’s health. Therefore, this comprehensively explores the state of
affairs within the paternal dimension of the family.
The maternal dimension of
Karen's family was a relatively big family. The children were eight in number,
and Karen's mother was one of them who was born in 1914 in West Virginia.
Karen's mother was the sixth child in the family and the daughter top Bessie
Williams, born in 1886 and died in 1952 after a life in marriage from 1905. The
perusal of the records by Karen's mom reveals little to know of the husband as
there was an antagonistic relationship between the couple (Naruemol, 2017). The
husband named, J.E Thompson, passed in 1953 after a life of alcoholism and
physically abusing Bessie. Karen's grandmother had the notion that her father
succumbed to cancer; however, this was untrue as the alcoholism culminated in
liver cirrhosis, severely hampered the individual's health, and led to his
untimely death. The death resulted in the four male members of the maternal
side to cater for the family in its entirety as a result of demise of the
parents. The great depression was rampant when the family was in Virginia, and
they considered them to be detached from being affected by the severity of the
economic crisis. The death of Karen's grandmother saw her grandfather attend
the funeral with another lass, which angered Karen's mother severely (Keskin,
2017). Therefore, Karen's family has experienced a turbulent past as far as the
stability and nobility of the marital union are concerned.
The sense of patriotism is
palpable in some of Karen's maternal relatives, as two of the eight children
were part of World War II efforts. This state indicates a high sense of
patriotism
ingrained in the family, and
this state of affairs is admirable within the family. The participants were
Jessie and Eugene, Karen's great-grandmother's fourth and eighth children.
Their participation in the second world war saw Blanche, named Blessie, enter
the war effort and participate as a nurse as a patriot for the country. The
diligence and patriotism were admirable, and the elder brothers funded the
tuition of the future nurse for her to realize her dreams of patriotically
serving in the war. Jesse served in the legendary battle at bulge after his
enlistment in 1938 into the army. He had left a pregnant mate behind, and after
the war, he returned to formalize the union through a marriage ceremony. This
state of affairs saw the family. Therefore, the war effort and the [patriotic
nature of this family are admirable and worth noting.
Personal reflection
The personal exploration of the construction genogram is indicative of the understanding of the necessity fo the family history to me as an individual. Considering the immediate generation of parents, Walter and Karen, their union and the circumstance surrounding the culmination of the unit reveal the social perception of marriage and morality now. The prevalence of AIDS on the planet was increasingly intense; therefore, the individuals decided to hedge this risk in the marital union entirely. This is a real familial strength as it indicates circumspect choices about morality in an age where moral decadence had culminated into a fatal disease with a low chance of survival for the affected. The strong religious background is also a factor that substantially contributes to the considerable strengths of the family (Keskin, 2017). The Methodist origin of Karen, coupled with the Judaism descent of Walter, ensures the inculcation of proper ideals in the rearing of the children they raised. This state ensures minimal societal pressures to succumb to the moral decadence that leads to sexually transmitted diseases, drug abuse as well as the development of delinquency.
Moreover, the associated
values of the value of hard work and education as a result of the emphasis on
education are palpable in the family. The family's value of education is
undeniable as one can observe the members' achievements. Furthermore, Karen's family
was extremely diligent in the sawmill business, and they could grow the
family's net worth to a significant proportion. The ancestors of the Karen
mainly participated in the sawmill trade, which saw them expand the empire to
gigantic proportions. Therefore, this is a collection of the achievements and
notable strengths of the family at the moment.
There have been notable
patterns identified throughout the family set up on both maternal and paternal
sides, and the patterns severely impact the present state of the family.
Notably, the value-centric nature of the family has led to the development of a
dynamic family notable in the sawmill franchise. The pattern of service IN
Karen's family indicates the discipline of vocation that the family has
developed and taught to the family's offspring. However, destructive patterns
within the organization might be observed, especially from the paternal side of
my family. Walter, my father, is known to have Alzheimer's disease, which
despite it \'s existence, did not stop Karen from opting to marry and care for
Walter. Emmanuel, Walter's FATHER, also had the disease of Alzheimer's disease,
which rendered him substantially different from his peers. Therefore, the
family has a pattern of value centeredness, hard work albeit the existence of
Alzheimer's from the paternal side poses a future health risk for coming offspring.
Despite the existence of
Alzheimrrsw which is significantly a disparaging factor among the normal
population, the family has fostered and prospered despite its existence in the
family. Alzheimer's disease did not deter Emmanuel from pursuing a legal career
which he flourished significantly. However, despite this resilience in the face
of such an illness, the family has a destructive pattern of infidelity and
delinquency. The great grandfather of Karen was a mean drunk who came with
another woman to the spouse's funeral. In contrast, Emmanuel was accused of
infidelity with another family member, which was covered up discreetly, albeit
the psychologic after shock posed a deterrence to the individual's mental
health. The guilt of the infidelity led to a dismal impact on his competence
towards the end of his life. Therefore, the pattern of infidelity in the family
could contribute to future occurrences of such traits in the descendants in
days to come.
The intergenerational pattern is severely influential on present relationship dynamics in a significant measure. The intergenerational traist observed and passed down through oral traditions and research could have a reliable explanation for the present family patterns at this point. The integer rational occurrences of industry patriotism and service to the country could influence the descendant's perception of life and military service. The desire to maintain the status quo is severely ingrained in the intergenerational; pater such that the individuals would opt to perpetuate the trait.
References
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Keskin, Y. (2017). The
Relational Ethics Genogram: An Integration of Genogram and Relational Ethics. Journal
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